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writes:I have a big problem with in me emotionally and mentally. I am so insecure,jealous, or so afraid my boyfriend will cheat me. whenever i am on relationship and if i know he is in love with me, i start to investigate, asking so many questions and never trust him. I am the one who always start arguments, i start to talk too bad,insult and when my BF don't talk,sms or chat with me i start to beg nor asking apologies and forgiveness. How many times he forgave me and warned me not to do it again but then after few days or months i start again. Now, i fight again with him for nothing, he disconnected everything,don't answer my calls,sms,emails and he never go online...I did all kinds of begging, asking forgiveness, promises to change but he never care...I felt my world collapsed.It crushed my heart coz i really love him. He is too far from me and i don't know what to do. I regret everything bad i did but i think he won't forgive me. Please help me, i can't live without him. he love me so much and i love him too very much. My papers are on the process going to his place. I urgently need your advise.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2012): i was also in this kind of trouble that my bf is cheating on me .. but now find the conclusion .... a few steps may help you too1. I just ignored him for some days 2. after that what he says i believe his words by saying him that "i trust you and i know you will never hurt me "... after listening my words he always keep quiet i know i cant live without him .. in relationships fight do nothing ... love is the word... love him like no one will love him better then you .. he'll also start loving you,, by the 1st day ..
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reader, Secretlife  +, writes (1 January 2011):
I know you reaally love him. He's just upset. Try not to call and sms so much. He will come around and realize that he can't be mad anymore. It just takes time. It's going to be ok.
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reader, Secretlife +, writes (1 January 2011):
Well first you have to start trusting him. If you dont trust him its gone make him feel like you dont trust him to go anywhere by himself cause you think he's cheating. If he really loves you and he gets so upset about you thinking he's cheating then it must mean he's not.Show him that you really love him by trusting him. And not accusing him of cheating. And change your ways.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI do apologies and asked forgiveness but no reply from him. He don't want to talk to me,its been 7days now. i never see him online since then. What will i do so that he will answer my calls and to forgive me? i don't want to lose him. i sent him lot of sms that i will do everything he wants me to do and to behave good but no reply.he is very far from me. Is it ok i always try and keep on sending sms,emails even though he never answer? i love and miss him so much...
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reader, shiza  +, writes (1 January 2011):
hi dear,if you love some one than you should have trust,respect for him and understand him.he loves you. he has all the 3 thing in you but you are always hurting his feeling for no reasons. no body can tolerate such a behaviour. change yourself. learn to trust the one you love. its not late. all the best.
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