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writes: I'm in a relationship with a man 15 years my senior. After settling down from the gay party life, I met and fell whole-heartedly for this man. But there's one problem. He has no passion in the bedroom. He has no problem with an erection and he looks at porn, but with me, he has no passion? I know he loves me and I love him very much, but this has gotten difficult. Is this something I should keep pursuing out of love, or should I just move on?
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify +, writes (2 January 2011):
if you don't feel loved when you have sex its a bit of an issue. a relationship should be a friendship with lovemaking involved. if there is a lack of passion you have to think are you just settling for something that doesn't satisfy you? is this the future that YOU want to be in a few years from now?
love can only do so much- sometimes you need to feel passion to feel desired
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