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writes:I'd be particularly interested to hear a male view on this scenario please...Why would a man who has a girlfriend of two years passionately kiss another woman (on two different occasions) and talk to her for hours about how much he likes her but NOT sleep with her? Surely if he was just looking to cheat on his girlfriend he would have pushed for more than just kissing?
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reader, cat lady  +, writes (1 January 2011):
 Huh??You want to know why a guy who already has a girlfriend, doesn't want to add insult to injury and be a cheater as well as a cad? "Push to sleep with her?" 'Pushing" could just as well get him a black eye or even an arrest warrant. Why on earth do you even care about this nonsense? If you focus on childish behavior from adults, you'll find so much of it, you'll have no time to be interested in anything else!I hope you're not the one with that kissing boyfriend - if you are, get rid of him fast. I suppose it's a vain hope I harbor that neither you nor the put-upon girlfriend of the passionate kisser are 'sleeping' with that fool? Are you the 'kissee,' perhaps? Looks can be deceiving these days but there really are still decent men around who can behave properly in public as well as in private and if you act like a decent woman, you'll meet them. A bit of advice for the young - you, in this case: In the oldest philosophies of every major culture on earth, one finds this little gem: choose your associates carefully for they are what you shall become. Choose friends whose behavior and accomplishments you want to emulate, people whose moral and intellectual excellence brings out the very best in you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2011): Are you the girlfriend or the other woman?
If you are the girlfriend, maybe he did want to sleep with her it just didnt happen for whatever reason. Or he did sleep with her but for obvious reasons will say it didnt happen because he 'didnt want to have sex with her'.
If you are the other woman. Maybe he fancies you but doesnt want to step over the line and be a full on cheater.
Ive asked a guy for you and he says if he was kissing her passionately and telling her how much he likes her. Then he pretty much DOES want to have sex with her, despite what hes saying to the contrary. Hope that helps!
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