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writes:Hello there,I gotta a sort of big problem. Yesterday I was at a party for celebrating the end of the year, and there was my ex boyfriend too. Once midnight arrived, my ex and I went out to see fireworks. Days before many people told me that my ex and I were expected to kiss each other once at the party, so I was just waiting for the right moment. Instead, his bestfriend arrived and he became very close to me. Then he kissed me on the brow, then on the right cheek, then on the left one and at least he kissed me on my lips. It has been a very quick kiss, but actually he did it, while my ex was still present. After that, my ex became very cold, and we didn't talk to each other until we went to sleep. It was kinda 5 o'clock (we've had a big party) and I was going to bed, when he entered in the room and said: "I'm standing here because I've to look after and protect you". He sat on a chair and spent more or less half an hour looking at me sleeping. Then, he laid on the bed with me and didn't do anything but hug me. We slept embraced for more or less two hours, then he suddenly got up and went away. When all my friends and I got up, he was normal, his bestfriend was it too, and nobody said a word about what had happened the night before.So, I just ask you: can anybody explain me what has happened? What my ex's bestfriend feels, according to you? And what actually does my ex feel about me?Thanks a lot, I'm sorry if my English is not so well (I'm Italian) and Happy New Year :)
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reader, m. +, writes (2 January 2011):
m. is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI don't know what I actually feel about my x's bestfriend. We are close friends, and that night we were kinda drunk (it's ok, in Italy we can drink since we're 16 n I'm almost 17 :])...
Anyway, I still feel something for my ex, instead. But as well, if he would have tried to have sex with me I would just have gone away. If he would have tried to kiss me, I would have kissed him. But not sex, not in those conditions, not before having understood what he does actually feels.
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