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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Hey guys, So me and my boyfriend of 1yr 8 months broke up in november. The last 3 months of our relationship was a LDR because the army moved his family 4 hours away. He was my soulmate, he understood me, made me laugh and smile. I loved him so much. But he's lazy. After promising he'd come down and see me on the train he never did because he was too 'scared' about going on a train on his own. He's also always lying he's always going to drinking parties and not telling me, he's constantly flirting and texting other girls..The night after we broke up he texted me saying he wants me back and has been ever since. I don't know what to do.. On one hand I still love him but he's always lying and he lives 4 hours away. Do you think I should just try and move on or give him another chance?
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reader, Secretlife +, writes (1 January 2011):
I don't think you should give him another chance. He has lied so many time it would be hard to believe him again. I think you should just move on and find someone close to you instead of being 4 hours away from you.
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reader, shiza +, writes (1 January 2011):
hi buddy, at your age such confusion occurs. he is too scared of every thing , he wants to play safe. so he is lying.when you know that he is a liar, then why you are thinking of all this. there is no trust in this realtion. sorry dear, i dont think this affair is not going to work out. see some other guy for your self. forget this person. all the best .
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