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writes:I've reposted this question to hoping to get more answersI know you’re all going to think I’m being childish here, but please hear me out. I’m 18, and very mature for my age. Last year, I met my college lecturer, and we hit it off straight away. There was one point though where I got close to this boy and my teacher started being harsh to me and him. The same week I finished it with the boy and we drifted apart, and my teacher started being nice again. Whenever a boy at my college got close to me or flirted, he would get very moody with me. I got the tag name of teachers pet, because he would let me get off with everything. I would find him staring at me from the other side of the room.He is always complimenting me, for example one day I came in with a different hairstyle and he was saying how lovely it was and touching it. Then someone else had theirs done, and he didn’t bother saying anything to her. He’s always touching/flicking my hair and saying how nice my perfume smells. I have him this year and we have gotten closer. One time something was upsetting me and he told me, they have to go through him to get to me. He’s very protective of me, and at first I thought he saw me as a daughter figure, but now it seems that he wants something more. He knows that I fancy him (well last year) and he made it worse by getting closer.There are so many other things he does, but I’m not going to bore you any longer. We do flirt a lot, especially the whole bickering thing that students have in high school/college. I’m just confused about what this teacher wants. Does this guy have a crush on me, or is he just being a teacher? Thank you for reading
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (23 February 2011):
His behaviour is actually very predatory - not a good sign at all for you if you fancy him, because this sort of guy will take you in, chew you up and spit you out.
First of all, he's a teacher. That means that the hair flicking/touching is not only unethical, but would get him fired.
Secondly, the way he treats you is rather like the way a predator would play with its meal. He acts jealously when you see other guys, and he's not protective at all - he's very controlling.
If you are as mature as you claim to be, then you'll take my advice and steer clear of this man in any romantic sense. I think if you tried something, you'd end up very hurt.
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reader, MistressNataliee +, writes (23 February 2011):
Sounds like he is giving you affection but be careful. Depending on your rules you could get in serious trouble if you persue it, to the extreme that you both could get dismissed from the college. Maybe try talking to him about the feelings, if that isnt a good idea try taking a step back, dont give him any opporunity to show affection towards you.
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reader, The Girl with the Diver's Hair +, writes (23 February 2011):
I think he has a crush but you want to be careful that one day he may offer you something and if you reject him it could end baadly. but tha probably wont happen. all in all i think you need to talk to eachother about where you stand .
Good Luck. E
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