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writes:She’s in a relationship with her bf for almost 5 years. Her bf is possessive and controlling. He has slapped her once before, hurt her emotionally, and she has cried many times. She broke up and patched back many times. She started having feelings for me for about a year. She shared all her problems with me. She felt happy, comfortable and felt good while talking to me, and I even made her handmade gifts just to make her feel special and she loved them. Suddenly, she doesn’t want to talk to me anymore because she thinks her bf might change if she stops talking to me, but she still has problems with her bf. She knows I really cared for her. I know I was a rebound, but someday, will she understand and realize how much I cared about her? It has been 5 months we last talked.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (23 February 2011):
 She will see one day how much you mean to her and I hope she does before it is too late. The best thing that you can do is still be there for her if she ever does need you again which is tough but has to be the nicest thing that you can do for her.
It's tough when she has so much time invested into that relationship to see when things are really wrong and you can't be the one to tell her these things but one day she will figure it out on her own and that is when she will realize what you meant to her.
You're a great guy so I hope things don't take too long to work out for you.
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