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writes:Okay, so I guess this is my "love story" and I want opinions. Ive known this guy for many years like 5 or more and hes my brothers best friend or used to be. Him and I recently started talking and we got extremely close in a matter of days. Ive had a crush on him ever since Ive known him. We both love each other. Hes moving about an hour or two away but he will come back to visit every so often. Him moving makes me feel like I'm being torn apart, like the other half of me is going somewhere. We always say how we dont want to lose each other and how we want to get married, have kids, etc. Hes on my mind all the time and if we dont text for a while because one of us is busy my heart/chest hurts. We both want to spend the rest of our lives with each other. I just cant lose him. At all. or I will go insane :( I'm 15 almost 16 and hes 23.... I know you will freak out and say oh my god hes a sex predator or something. Hes not. No matter what you say about our age difference wont matter to me because I love him and age doesnt matter to me. We will be 7 years apart and thats how far apart my parents are. Go ahead and tell me its statutory rape or whatever, I dont care. Or its illegal, cuz its not unless we have sex which WONT happen. When I turn 18 we decided that I should live with him. I feel like I honestly cant live without him. The things he says to me are the best. You would have to be in my position to know. I just want to know if you guys think that our bond is so strong (it is) that we can last. Thank you3
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (7 July 2011):
 Hm, hopefully he's going to stay true to his word in a few years..and it's not just lip service he's giving you. Good luck with that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey guys! Just wanted to give you an update. Me and him are still together, we were together for a month and broke up but are now together again. Things are good. Im excited for the future, he wants to get married to me, have kids, and live with me when im 18! (: thanks for your supporrt!
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (24 February 2011):
Well you've already rattled off stuff you know people are going to say, and that you would rather not hear so what advice are you looking for? That yes, you guys will last forever, and have a happy fairytale ending? Sorry, no one on here can predict the future so only time will tell for you.
First of all are you guys even boyfriend and girlfriend? Because if you aren't and your 23 year old crush is moving away then don't hold your breath.
True age doesn't matter to a certain point in your life, that's when you're at least 18, past the age of legal consent and understand why those laws are there, and you have some dating experience under your belt.
Sure the things he says are sweet and it's nice to envision the future together..but will it become a reality? Is there any truth behind what he says?
Maybe, maybe not. You just have to wait and see.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2011): honey, wait till your 18 and then think about all this. experiment around. if he loves you he will have a special place in his heart waiting for you to be an adult but for now your still young and you wouldnt want him parenting you, would you? well thats kinda what it sounds like. my opinion. play around before you decide your gonna marry someone or commit until you graduate with only ever 1 person seriously.
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