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writes:I know that you always hear people say the long distance relationships dont work but ive met a boy that is perfect for me but he lives in ireland, we met on saturday night on chatroulette(i know) and we havent stopped talking since, last night was the first night where we didnt stay up all night on skype to talk to eachother and that was because i was too tired, but we both like eachother sooooo much and we both say that when ever we think we have chance we're going to meet up, and im considering going to a university in ireland just so i can see him, ive never connected with a boy so much and he says the same thing about me, and i hate that i cant be with him. and i know what most people will say that, "what if he(or you) meets someone closer to home" but what if we dont..., i mean he even said that after we finish school he wants to join the army, but the british army just so he can be close to me. i dont know what to do, i really like him and i dont want to give up on him, but he's like 300 miles away .....
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reader, RoseA  +, writes (24 February 2011):
 I do believe in Long distance relationship.
Its hard to find the right guy these days, if you really think that both of you are meant to be together, Then try it.
Because im sure, if you gave up, later, you will blame yourself, about losing this guy, the guy that can make you happier even when hes far away,
If your looking for Love, and for the person that loves you back, Love is not about seeing that person every time, Or having things done with him, Holding his hands.
Love is about sharing your feelings, and caring about each others, standing by each others side, ...
Im sure, If you guys are meant to be together, Then long distance wont matter with both of you,
It might be hard for you at the first, But at least, You have tried it...
And do not go as what people say, "Long distance relationship fails" I do not believe in that.
Good luck, and be caring, if you wanna keep him!
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reader, MissVee  +, writes (23 February 2011):
I think, between me and you, that Cupid has a drinking problem. Sometimes his aim seems veeeery off. Tsk, one arrow here, another one God only knows where. Someone get this guy into AA, pronto ;)
Don't give up on him just because your circumstances are a bit difficult AT THE MOMENT. One of the best feelings in life is that great glow you feel in your heart when a calculated risk pays off. If you're happy to take that gamble, and he is as well, go for it. Follow your heart right to the airport and who knows where you may end up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2011): Hey I don't think you need to give up on him but maybe just try and think about your relationship differently - focus on what you can do to support one another and the good things that can happen but you need to accept it is not an easy path and that insecurities and misunderstandings are inevitable given the distance and methods of communication. I am in an LDR - the guy is 10,000 miles away ! and we have seen each other 5 times in 4 years. We argue sometimes but still very much in love. My advice is to take things one step at a time and if it is the right thing it will work out. Make sure you keep your other friendships strong and your life filled with good things - of which he is one part. That way the pressure is not on him and the LDR to keep you going. Take care.
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reader, unabletofly  +, writes (23 February 2011):
All people try to find easier ways for everything.That is the reason why human being increasing tecnology level day by day.
Because this comes inside of our souls.
I mean long distance realation makes everything harder.If u need the harm body of your lover you can not reach.If you would like to discuss your day wtih him you can not do this.If you wanna hold his hand and go out when u desire you can not this.And your soul try to find a easier solition to supply your needs easier than your nature or his nature go closer to other people and to be cheated is so close after this points.This is why long distance realotions do not go on.
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