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writes: My ex and I have been separated..he added me on facebook accepted as I was saying thanks for the add he went offline...then I noticed he came back on and then off....like he was creeping me..to see if i was on....well...i know our separation has not been an easy one...he cheated..and was an ass..to me...he told me he loves me but not in love with me..after much therapy I am doing not so bad...but why the 360 for him..why did he add me...he was very mad that I have a lot of men....on facebook...i sort of think his girlfriend he denies having found out...now his facebook is deleted completely...lol
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reader, firstlovelastlove  +, writes (23 February 2011):
 "now his facebook is deleted completely...lol" I think it's great you are able to laugh about this.
"he cheated..and was an ass..to me...he told me he loves me but not in love with me" I am just one man but it sounds to me you were in a power struggle of a relationship. Now that you have the 'upper hand' (as the saying goes) he realizes this and his behavior "his facebook is deleted completely" reinforces this point of view.
"after much therapy I am doing not so bad" Congratulations on your progress. I'm sure as you get more time and "therapy" under your belt and more distance between you and your ex (and people with this behavior), you'll be able to say "I am doing GREAT". I wish you all the best.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (23 February 2011):
 Ok you have obviously went through a hard time with this guy and it has took a lot of hard work on your part to get over him. Of course you are going to be curious as to why he added you, but he caused you so much heartache do you really think it is wise letting him back in to your life, old feelings can return very quickly. He has deleted his account now therefore I think the best thing you can do is to forget about it and keep him where he belongs in your past. I cannot answer why he added you as there may be a lot of reasons.
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