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writes:I was in a very long relationship that ended last December. She started seeing someone else, but then was on again off again (talk of reconciliation, then not) with me until last May when she became official with this guy(despite saying weeks earlier she wasn't over me and was wanting to try and fix things between us). Throughout the whole thing I was trying to be the nice guy, never fight, never cuss or yell, even when she would text me to hang out with her at night behind her bf's back(I didn't). For the last few weeks to. Month inane been thinking about her alot, and wishing I hadn't been so nice, but had expressed how I really felt, yelled and done all the things people normally do when they break up. Should I call her and clear my head, or has it been too long?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advise everyone. Just to clear something up, ifi do call her it will not be to restate things between us bit to clear out my closet. I was so nice during the breakup and never had any outbursts, but I feel like I deserved one. That's my question should I air it out and call, or is it water under the bridge? Will it help me let go? I feel happy now(1ish year later) but still somewhat attached!
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reader, CANDY61 +, writes (24 February 2011):
If I were you I would not call or text her, I would take the pain and move on, the pain wont hurt forever, you're get over it. first of all she's got another guy over you so thats spoil meat now. If you get back with her it will always be in your mind she been with someone else. Start doing something different to get her off your mind, there's plenty more fish in the sea. Anytime a break up is about another guy then why would you want her back? Think about it. She's gonna dump him too.
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reader, Taylor_1118 +, writes (24 February 2011):
Listen don't regret anything ever, just call her and tell her ovr the phone in person but say it. I f she doesn't feel the same then you are no worse off than you are now, but you will know you did everything you could and you tried. don'it be embarssaed if she doesn't want just say "I understand but I just needed to say it, i wish you the best and let it go.
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reader, PatientlyWaiting1 +, writes (24 February 2011):
Go for what you want! Seriously.
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