A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:It's me again from (two talking diff.languages).I have too many issues concerning my boyfriend. Besides being lazy to initiate anyth like seeing me or calling. I ve difficulty to trust him. He is v.popular ve many friends spec girls from all levels and ages. Bc of his wrk and life style.I think we r too extremes am a bit conservative i ve friends but we also ve limits.As for him he is closing his friends list on fb it's private he says it's bc he knws many famous ppl.Sometimes i used to call him and find him unreachable we sit a lot and talked about things tht bother me bf and this was one of the main issues tht he has to b around whenv i need him. He just said he wnts us to take a serious step and meeting my parents but how can i talk to them about it alth he doesn't show even care to c me ?! V.weird.Even on valentine he sent me flowers and gift but didn't bother to ask me out. Am so confused coz am so attracted to him,i think i love him. He seems unstable coz he is 40 and still acting as twenties. Careless in his health,doesn't eat all day and go for drinks and he is a night person while i am a morning person. A friend told me about ving so many girl friends will b filtered if we get engaged but im still nt sure as some girls these days r just bitches this doens't matter with them a lot. Finally yest he clled me after i finished wrk and asked me2tell him if i'l go out and i expected the same. I went to shop then started to cll by 9pm no answer or disconnection he was again unreachable till he showed up around 3am i was in bed sad and couldn't answer. I got crazy and feel i may get sick from being always angry and suspecting like tht. I am looking for real love,care and peace like my parents.Can't stop loving him and once he tries to contact me after any fight my heart beats of happiness and missing. But how can i continue like that. We ve been together for 3months i wasn't happy or relaxed most of the time.Btw we r christians and he was going through divorce since yrs and lawyers. It's someth tht made him unstable i guess and worried alth he seems to want a serious relationship but he acts weird sometimes as if he wnts freedom and doing anyth whenv he wnts more importnt than me. Should i leave or stay ? Plz advice!!
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (23 February 2011):
 To me, it doesn't sound like things are going the direction you want them to be going. Are you content to wait? If not, you might want to consider leaving. In my eyes, this statement summed up your feelings about him: "Besides being lazy to initiate anyth like seeing me or calling. I ve difficulty to trust him."
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