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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I've been friends with a junior for a month or so and he's a year younger than me. Recently he told my classmate he likes me and if I ever accepted him I'd be his first girlfriend. But the thing that bugs me is the age gap. While one year might not be a big difference, I feel that I'm not ready to start a relationship with a younger guy and I'm not sure how to tell him nicely that I'm not interested even though he hasn't explicity confessed to me yet. Another thing is the fact that many juniors are interested in me and even thoug i'm flattered at the attention I'm getting, i can't help but feel a bit embarrassed at the attention I'm getting sometimes. Advice would be appreciated. :) Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (23 February 2011):
 Well first off you shouldnt be embarressed that guys are showing interest in you, i know it can be embarressing but enjoy the attention they give to you. Ok well I think the best bet would be to wait and see if this guy actually says anything to you or not. He might not have the courage to tell you how he feels therefore you may be worrying over nothing. However if he does tell you he is interested well thank him and say you are very flattered but at the moment you are not wanting a relationship with anyone as you are wanting to concentrate on your school work. Its as simple as that. Goodluck Hunny.
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