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30-35,
*ittle.spoon
writes:I've been with my boyfriend for just over four months and we've just lost our virginity to each other. It was awesome and totally unlike how I was expecting, but I have two questions about it.Firstly, after each time we've had sex I've been really sore. For example, we had sex last night and I'd really like to be able to have sex again tonight, but right now my vagina feels really sore, probably because during sex he 'stretches' me. Is there any way of reducing the soreness?Secondly, when he comes inside me (though he's wearing a condom), I feel like I orgasm. I've never orgasmed with another person before (a fact which causes me a lot of anxiety), but my vagina contracts and although there's no crest of pleasure, as it were - it's much less intense than the orgasms I have from touching my clitoris - I feel a similar mental rush of happiness and then calm. Is there a qualitative difference between vaginal and clitoral orgasms? Could I be having a vaginal orgasm brought on by the feeling of him orgasming inside me?Thank you for any advice you can give!
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reader, little.spoon +, writes (25 February 2011):
little.spoon is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your advice :)
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reader, largentsgirl89  +, writes (23 February 2011):
 When you lose your virginity it's normal to experience soreness (first time usually hurts) and for a while after you start having sex you will experience soreness, especially if he is a larger penis.
To help with the soreness, before you guys start to engage in actual intercourse, take a little while to have some foreplay and make sure you are very well lubricated (wet) in your vaginal area. And don't be afraid to ask him to take his time entering you.
As for the orgasm, I don't know any woman that can have an intense, real orgasm from just vaginal intercourse alone, most have to have their clitoris played with while having intercourse (there are positions that allow this to be done) and that usually gives way to a really intense orgasm. Experiment with each other and find out what works for you two as a couple. THat's one of the best parts. :)
And yes, you could be having a small orgasm from feeling him cum inside of you.
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