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writes:Dear Marvellous People,My boyfriend of 2 years has completely changed towards me these days. The least thing that i say or do provokes him very much, to the extent of him not calling me for days, because we are in a long distant relationship. Whenever i try calling him he rejects my calls and when he sometimes picks the call he gives me a whole lot of excuses. My caring and adoring boyfriend has turn into something else. i'm thinking may be is because of my denial of sex to him, which we've all agree upon when/ Reply to this Question
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reader, Dorothy Dix  +, writes (18 April 2011):
Hi there. It's not really the denial of sex by you, it's the distance and the loneliness that's the problem.
Long distance relationships are very challenging to keep going. There's a lot of loneliness.
If you are always texting him or calling him - DON'T. Stop it altogether. Instead, let him call or text you.
Perhaps you are texting him all the time, so you are always in his face. He might be getting annoyed by it.
From now on, stop all contact and do nothing. Give him some space, no matter how long it is.
Then, just see how long it is before he does contact you. You will have to be very patient.
Take care and best wishes.
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