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Should I show my boobs to my online boyfriend?

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Question - (17 April 2011) 8 Answers - (Newest, 24 July 2011)
A female India age 30-35, *incky writes:

hi i am of 18old .i have a small doubt

can i be romantic with my boyfriend?

when we generally talk each other in video chat,at that time he asked me to show my boobs(chest without bra and anthing like that)

i want to know can i show him what he has asked or reject his request.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (24 July 2011):

So_Very_Confused agony auntNo you may not.

you should not

NO! not a good idea...

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A male reader, dave2 United States +, writes (24 July 2011):

Absolutly not. Once you send a picture accross the internet, there is a possibility that it may remain on the internet forever.

I would suggest turning off the webcam and just doing text chat and see where things go from there.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2011):

Noooooooooo Don't I did that once and a naked picture of me ended up on a public internet website and I had to get it taken down it was a very embarrassing moment : ( Plus most *boyfriends* On the internet are desperate and looking for sex lol

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A female reader, Full moon temptress1 United Kingdom +, writes (18 April 2011):

Only one answer to this.NO,NO,NO,NO,No.You don't know him long enough

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A female reader, Phoebe Halliwell United Kingdom +, writes (17 April 2011):

Phoebe Halliwell agony auntIf you don't know him in real life, then no. It sounds dangerous and to be frank, having a boyfriend is much better when he's actually there in real life. If you met this man on the internet you have no way of knowing if he really is who he says he is. And him asking you to do it just sounds odd...

If you don't want to (or there's some doubt in your mind) or you've never met this guy, don't. It might lead to all kinds of trouble! x

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A male reader, Dataluke United Kingdom +, writes (17 April 2011):

Dataluke agony auntDepends on how well you know him and if you feel you can trust him.

If you have known each other for a while now and you can say that you trust him then yes if you want to. But if not then don't do it, or ask him for something first to test the water.

Just be careful,

All the best, Dataluke

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A male reader, Partyboy123 Canada +, writes (17 April 2011):

Partyboy123 agony auntthe main question is... DO YOU WANT TO? I mean sure, he really wants to see your breasts, but in a relationship, one has to respect another, and if you say no, if he doesn't respect your decision, then hes not the one for you. IF YOU DO NOT WANT TO, DON'T FEEL BAD FOR HIM AND SHOW HIM, STAND YOUR GROUND. IF YOU WANT TO, THEN GO AHEAD.

hope i helped.

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A male reader, Hugh.J United Kingdom +, writes (17 April 2011):

Hugh.J agony auntI urge caution.

It may seem exciting to share intimate things with your boyfriend, but how do you know where your pictures will end up? The Internet is very good at distributing things. You may feel that you trust your b/f 100%, but can you ever be THAT sure? If you decide to go ahead and do it, please make sure that your face isn't included in the picture, or any unique identifying features.

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