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writes:Ok been 11 days now since break up Iam going back home tomorrow been away for 5 days to stay with family I spoke to girlfriends mother yesterday and she running around totally fine why is she doing this Iam devastated so basically I want her back but I think she has moved on very quick to quick what do I do now when I return to base Reply to this Question
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reader, Aunty Susie  +, writes (17 April 2011):
 Maybe the girlfriends mother doesn't want you to get back together. Could she be telling a little lie? Just so that you don't seek your girlfriend out and try to get back together! You really need to speak to the girlfriend, to know exactly where she stands on reconciliation. Good luck.
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reader, maverick494  +, writes (17 April 2011):
Just because she seems to have moved on very quickly doesn't mean that she has. Still if it's so, then you have to accept that she'd been thinking about ending the relationship for a while now. And if that's the case, wanting her back is only going to hurt you. So try to do the same. Stuff your life with activities, meet up and go out with friends, the sort of things you didn't have much time for when you were still together. That and time is what it takes to get past this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2011): She could have just lied and told her mother to tell you that so you would think she has moved on. Ask her personally how she is if you want to get a real answer.
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