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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hmm okay so this recent tuesday i was suppose 2 see my boyfriend and he never showed up cause he was in Jail and i never thought the reason would be this: so he told me he found a phone of a girl co-worker and it was those new high tech phones and he found it in the break room and he went through her pictures and she had naked pictures of her self and he sent them 2 his phone and left the phone in the break room. He said he did this in march and i quess the girl co-worker didn't reconize a number in her call records and investigated and told the supervisors and they found out what he did and so tuesday that just passed he got fired from his job and the girl pressed charges on him so he went 2 Jail!?what i'm asking is what do i do ? i've been with him for 3 yrs, why did he send himself those pixs 2 his phone, i'm i not a good girlfriend? what did he do with the pics? he said he deleted them and i'm hurt cause all he told me when he told me the truth was im sorry i love u and i know i want 2 be with you but i dont know why i did this 2 you, it was a dumb mistake and he feels i deserve better and should make the best choice for myself, but he hopes we stay 2gether. why did he say that instead of kissing my ass and begging for me back? instead he wasnt trying 2 beg for me, do you think he doesn't want 2 be with me? also i feel disgusted by him, how can he find a girls phone and send himself her naked pics wen we were having great sex. i dont know what 2 do with him, he didn't cheat on me but he did some creepy pervert move you know?! Helpp i need adviceee?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (20 April 2011):
 Well I guess he is not sucking up and begging you for forgiveness because he knows that he has made a huge mistake and is leaving it up to you now to decide what to do for the best. I guess this is only a choice you can make and nobody else. Yes what he done was really stupid but you no what people can do really stupid things at the spur of the moment and not even think about what they are doing. He probably came across the pictures and couldnt belive it so he sent them to himself. Maybe to show friends what he had found who knows.
Yes he was in the wrong I am not going to deny that. But if I am honest in his defense I think he now knows that he has done wrong and he has come to terms with it. The only thing now is can you forgive him. Talk to him and tell him how you feel. Goodluck.
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