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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I've told my best friend that I was gay and that I have feelings for him. At that time, he had just broken up with his gf and was working to get back with her. His reactions were positive but sounded like he was confused. He told me that he was 95% straight and the other 5 was curiosity. In the next day he had asked me how big I was and other private questions about myself. He told me that it would be nice to be with me and stuff, and at that time he felt torn apart from his gf and me. In the next three days or so, all of that quickly faded away. He then told me that he was now 100% into women....and that he might fool around with me when he comes down, but not to hold it against him. =( I asked him if I did anything wrong and said no, that he was just in a rebound. I also asked him if I still had a chance with him. He told me to wait for the future and that anything can happen....Now in the present time, when I ask him that...he gets grossed out and says no. =( Please help me..I still have feelings for him...is he confused?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2011): Thanks everyone for your support! I guess I'll just forget about this and move on and stay best friends. =)
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify  +, writes (19 April 2011):
 he's messing you about and will do you more harm than good, if you can, avoid him for now and try and find other people to spend your time with. i'm speaking from experience here. unrequited love is bad for your soul and doesn't get you anywhere...
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reader, jc2008 +, writes (17 April 2011):
all i'll say is this, sex between friends especially on a break up is a no no. Once you've crossed the friendship line theres no going back... seriously. Hes on the rebound and not 100% about what he wants so there isn't a relationship there. If you want to keep him as a friend i'd not mention that converstion ever again and set your sights on a tall dark hansome stranger lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2011): He seems confused, but as if he may want to be with you in the future but for now he likes girls so you should maybe wait awhile and just be friends and see how things go.
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