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anonymous
writes:I am desperate. He left to other country for 2 weeks to his ex, cause they have child together. I dont understand the way he told me, it caused me pain. He just sent sms before as a reply to msg that he goes for holidays and that no regrets. Now after 1 week of no contact I wrote him where he is? And so I got to know now where he is. No regrets? Why is he so cruel?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2011): thanks for answer. 6 months together. he didnt even tell me where he is going, he wrote holidays. But he mentioned few times before that he likes to cheat and I know he had slept with this ex once already while we were together, when they met for seeing a child. why he didnt say, I am going there, but no worries etc..
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reader, Dorothy Dix  +, writes (18 April 2011):
Hi there. How long were you going out together?
As the child's biological father, he does have rights to see his child.
You are going to have to see what he says when he comes back. You said he's only gone for 2 weeks.
Give him some space now. Don't text him anymore, just leave it altogether.
When that 2 weeks has passed and he has returned, wait and see how long it is before he contacts you again.
If it's longer than 2 weeks or maybe even a month, still don't contact him in any way. You need to be patient.
At this point in time, you really don't have any other choice.
Because he has gone to see his child, it doesn't necessarily mean he's thinking about getting back with his ex again. It doesn't mean much at all really.
Stay calm and relax. What will be will be. You can't force the outcome.
Take care and best wishes.
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