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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hey so...i have a teacher he's 43 and we used to flirt on all the time we had a confusing relationship one minute we were nice, next not but since about a year ago he removed me from his lessons in the meeting he said i was out his lessons and because being angry i said wicked you've listened to me mate i don't want to be in ya lessons to be honest i hate your lessons like, he was red and looking up eyes watering, since then he's been trying to ignore me one week then speak to me the next.Recently i'm constantly being told from a member of staff to stay away from him, that he hates me and that i'm a slut who only comes to school to seduce him which i dont but every time i see him he goes out his way to look or speak to me so i mentioned what was said and he denyed ever saying anything, i dont know what to do or what to say i've tryed avoiding him but my GCSE exam is in a MONTH and i dont understand a lot of the syllabis and need help but i don't know wheither i should ask him or not ???!!!thanks guys please help :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey, guys i i think this story has given off the wrong impression of me i don't NOT FANCY this man he in fact now repulses me, it was him who started the flirting i merely joined in, then ended it, the reason i was kicked out was because i had a re-sit exam and because of timing was late to his lesson so he sent me out even though there were people arriving a lot later than me, then later i was with friends he came over and kept saying my name then moaning i was like WHAT and he was like err i can't understand you, i told him to FUCK OFF and leave me alone and many teachers heard and because this wasn't the first time i'd swore at him and teachers started to question our relationship he kicked me out of his lessons.
i've decided not to ask him anyway i'm asking my friends to help me so i can hopefully pass this exam hasn't worked before but heres hoping
thanks for advice but i need to say i'm not some little girl in love with her teacher NOT AT ALL makes me feel sick at the thought !!
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (17 April 2011):
He had you removed - therefore whatever was going on was very, very bad. Most likely others saw that you fancied him and told him to have you removed.
In other words - stay away unless you really want to screw up your GCSE's. Next time they'll have you removed from the school.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2011): Its quite common for young girls to practice their flirting skills on older men in a 'safe' environment. Your teacher should know this and be able to handle the situation. But it sounds as if he doesnt really know how to respond to you and hes become worried by you. As its a school, there wil be plenty of other teachers you can go to for help. So i suggest you leave this man alone, dont seek him out or even respond when he tries talking to you. Ive a feeling hes only trying to be polite to you now because you make him nervous and he doesnt want to anger you, nothing more. Just blank him to save yourself and him any further problems. You are at school to learn after all, nothing more.
He has had you removed from his class. Which means he does not want to teach you. He has obviously spoken about you in less than glowing terms and its prompted another member of staff to speak up in his defence. So quit while you are ahead and leave him well alone. Concentratre on what you are there for and put all your energies into your education.
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