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*oyWonder2006
writes:me and my girlfriend of 3 years have not had what u call a perfect sex life. its been good 1 second next its cold for a few days. she dont moan when we have sex.she just lays there and looks at the roof.she just wants to lay on her back, no other postions.sometimes this does my head in so muchwe have a kid and another on the way (6 weeks left)but for the past 2 weeks i've been using my hand more and more and my girlfriend doesnt even care. i asked her last night for a massage, she touched my middle leg i thought yeah. she then finshed doing my bad leg then she turned over and went to sleep but what made it worse was because she touched me and we had no sex for 2 weeks i just grew like mad. had to get out of bed and deal with the matter. this morning she woke up and stressed at me because i got up and didnt go to sleep. so i said well u made it grow i had to deal with it love. she said "and" what can i do?next move 4 me is to dump her and get someone else as it's killing me not having sex. i've got a high sex drive i'm using my hand 6 times a day and my girl dont care at all. any help will be greatful thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2011): shes pregnant for gods sake! dump her if yur so selfish not to think about her feelings, shes probably better off without you
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reader, cupidus  +, writes (17 April 2011):
 When you talk about dumping her for sex and you have more than one kid, makes me understand how your needs matter more than anyone's needs. I'd wouldn't be looking at the ceiling I'd be looking at the door.
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reader, AngelofLove +, writes (17 April 2011):
 BoyWonder2006
Your partner is due to have a baby in 6 weeks and you wonder why she is not in the mood for sex so often? Think about it and listen to your own words.
Whilst I can understand sex drive needs to be satisfied, you would be selfish to think about dumping your girlfriend whilst pregnant.
You can and should masturbate as many times as you need. Alternate your hands so you do not tire your wrist to much.
Please consider your girlfriends feelings and condition!
If the sex is good when your girlfriend is not heavily pregnant with your baby, then you do not really have must to worry about.
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reader, KeighleySky +, writes (17 April 2011):
 why dont you try and give her a break.maybe she feels that you push her for sex. and can i ask why you odnt stop when she's just staring at the ceiling? she's pregnant have you ever considered sex might be painful for her, it sounds to me like she's taking it so you wont moan like a child. you have a child with her and one on the way, stop being so selfish. stop concentrating on the fact that you want sex and start concentrating on your pregnant girlfriend. do you know what happens during pregnancy? you can have back ache constantly, the baby can kick at any time and you can feel sick all the way through pregnancy. have a little sympathy for the woman, shes lookign after your first child, is dealing with being pregnant with her second and all you seem to want to do is have sex. i suggest you look up a website that can help you to understand what women go trough druing pregnancy. have you ever thought that she might need a massage, because you kow a womans ankles swell when she's pregnant too. grwo up and look after your pregnant girlfriend.
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (17 April 2011):
 Over the past three years has she always been like this? If she's pregnant that could certainly be a factor as to why she doesn't like sex recently at least.
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