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He's hot and then cold. Has he lost interest?

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Question - (17 April 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 17 April 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I think he's lost interest. He hasn't talked to me, and when I tried talking to him, he didn't say much.

I don't know what to do. One minute he's completely attracted to me and likes me, wants to hang out, and the next, I'm nothing?

I know that once a guy makes up his mind about you, thats it.

Need some help getting over this.

Also, is there something wrong with a 21 year old dating a 34 year old?

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A male reader, Partyboy123 Canada +, writes (17 April 2011):

Partyboy123 agony auntHey,

is there anything that happened recently that you did, or that someone did to him that has kind of pushed him away?

did something happen in his family? ie. death, car accident, something that he is grieving over?

if you do not know, if you can see him in person and ask him, it would make it much easier to talk to him because it shows that you took the time to find him and put in the effort to see him.

I would wait it out and see what happens, see if he comes to you.

and if you are 21 and he is 34, then that is a rather large age difference :S Maybe he is trying to distance himself because you are so young, and he doesn't feel that the relationship is right because of the age gap.

hope i helped.

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