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writes:is it okay if my best friend has another best friend???cuz sometimes i wounder if she will take my place or something like that. should i be concern about this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2011): wow thankz for all of the replies, i never thought it would have been so quick to get a reply but thankz anyways the answers were all great, will use all the advise hope it works though :)thankz again it is really appreciated :)
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reader, KjS  +, writes (17 April 2011):
 Most people have two best friends, I know I have a few best friends.. But even if your best friend does have another best friend.. That doesn't mean she doesn't want to be yours. You could suggest going out as a three, bowling or somewhere fun and try and get to know her better. If you make an effort to do this.. Your best friend might appreciate it and she might like the three of you together spending time shopping and everything.If your best friend seems different with you, have a chat with her, if you know her other friend, have a chat with her as well. Ask her to be honest with you. If she really is your best friend.. You won't lose her, you can be concerned if she's showing different signs and ignoring you and stuff for example, facebook can be one to watch.. Watch her statuses.. You could see what their friendship is like and compare that to yours if you are really worried..
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reader, KjS +, writes (17 April 2011):
Most people have two best friends, I know I have a few best friends.. But even if your best friend does have another best friend.. That doesn't mean she doesn't want to be yours. You could suggest going out as a three, bowling or somewhere fun and try and get to know her better. If you make an effort to do this.. Your best friend might appreciate it and she might like the three of you together spending time shopping and everything.If your best friend seems different with you, have a chat with her, if you know her other friend, have a chat with her as well. Ask her to be honest with you. If she really is your best friend.. You won't lose her, you can be concerned if she's showing different signs and ignoring you and stuff for example, facebook can be one to watch.. Watch her statuses.. You could see what their friendship is like and compare that to yours if you are really worried..
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2011): From personal experience I don't think it's anything to worry about, my best friend has another best friend and it seems as though they're been taken away from me. But they're not really, they're still there and they'll always be there for you no matter what. I don't think you should worry too much about it. And if you feel that way and you think they're being taken away from you then perhaps you should mention it to your best friend and explain how you feel. Or you could have another best friend too.
When I felt like that with my best friend I mentioned it to her and she started hanging out with both of us equally so no one felt left out. It might help to do that.
I hope this helps
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