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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:So what has randomly happened is one of my best friends suddenly blanking me and ignoring me for no reason at all? she blocked me on msn and deleted me on facebook. i was so upset and i didnt know what was going on so i asked her about it through text and she said she didnt feel how she used it and decided she didnt want me to be her friend anymore and that we shouldnt talk. I have her 4 days space and yesterday this then all blew up. I asked what had happened if i had upset her and she said no and that it was her decision. This is very out of character for her and last time we spoke about 5 days ago she was being all nice and saying she loved me and always wanted me in her life. My other best friend is like her Best Friend Forever kind of thing, (it doesnt bother me, i have other friends and stuff and they have known each other much longer) and she is kind of stuck in the middle of this but i dont want to cause like a mini war thing between cause i want everything to be okay again :/ I am close to her younger brother and he says he will talk to her because aparently she is doing this with other friends too, who i'm not as friendly with. He is blaming the fact that his father has left living with their mum, and 2 other sisters as the marriage was hard. I just have nooo clue what to do. Ive emailed her with how i feel and now i feel like giving up. But ive given so much time to her when other people were not there, so i really dont know. Just help me see some sense and sanity through this madness! Thank you so much if you can help, im 16, my two friends are 15 and the brother is 13. Yeahh were all young but pleasee they are all so important to me.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (18 April 2011):
 I guess there is not a lot you can do in a situation like this. There is obviously some feelings she is getting and she wants to put her life in perspective. It sounds like you have done nothing wrong and yes it does sound like she is going through a hard time at the moment in her family life and she is pushing her friends away. My concern here would be to ensure that she is not suffering from depression. Talk to an adult about this. Maybe your mother and ask her to have a talk with your friends mother about what is going on.
I really dont think there is much else for you to do. If you see her be nice to her if she talks tell her you miss her and that you are confused. Try and get an explanation out of her and keep being friendly. But dont push it to hard as you might just drive her further away. Goodluck and all the best.
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