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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend is 30 yrs older than me and I have come to realize he played 5 yrs of my life by manipulating me, sexually used me...the 5 yrs relationship I feel is based with lies. I thought it was real relationship since he is so charming, gives me emotional support and sometimes financial support, he is nice to me but in our relationship he always talk about sex. He often tells me "I love you" a very convincing words but there are times too I don't feel his sincerity and every time I ask questions about our relationship he ignores my questions and tells me I am being emotional.He wants me always to come into his terms but if I lay what I want he runs away and leave me. Last week, I told him again what I want in our relationship- A COMMITMENT when I told him this, he decided to end the relationship again and right there I found my answers. He is not in love with me but is in love with what I am giving.I was so angry with him upon realizing his intentions for I felt manipulated...I cursed him and told him, "wish in your deathbed you will suffer, you played 5 yrs of my life".I feel so guilty of my harsh words but sometimes I tell myself...he deserves more for playing 5 yrs. of my life. Right now, I feel sorry for what I said to him. Should I apologize? He is 70 yrs old and I am afraid of KARMA. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2011): If you regret what you said to him. You can always apologise. Tell him you take back what you said even though you think he is selfish and manipulating. Then bid him goodbye and totally ignore him from there on.
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reader, setanta  +, writes (17 April 2011):
try not to worry, i truely believe in karma but u were not in the right frame of mind when u said it and didnt mean it as angry as u were, i would feel the same , well have, so i know, we all say things we regret and i wouldnt worry about it, karma only works if u didnt have a reason to say it, you did, hope u can read mine too and help me if u can, dont worry , hes an ass
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