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*nomonous661991
writes:Hello everyone, first of all I'm a 19 year old lad who is in a relationship with a 27 year old woman. We've had our up and downs but every things going well. I have had a sexual fantasy for some years now of being fucked up the arse by a girl with a strap-on. I'm not gay or anything it's just something I would like to experience. My girlfriend has put her fingers up my arse a few times an she seems to like doing that but I don't know if I ask her to fuck me up the arse that she might think I'm gay or weird. How should I go about asking her or should I not ask at all? Thanks for any help given Reply to this Question
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (17 April 2011):
 Start things gradually by telling her you like hugs from behind, then tell her to grind her hips, then hump you a little. Tell her how much you enjoy the senations. Surprisingly she might enjoy doing it to you too. Explain that it's common for women to want to experiment exchanging roles, to have the curiosity of what it feels like to have a penis. At least I do. I learned that about myself as our relationship progresses. It's good if she can understand the benefit of milking your prostate. If she's willing to put her finger up your ass she will be up for putting on a strap on dildo. It does not make you gay. I asked my boyfriend if he would let me do that he said he would, just to make me happy, but not necessarily something he craves though. Explain to her what your fantasy means and why it makes you happy. You want her to do this to you, and not a guy, so that doesn't make you gay. In fact you may be turned on by a dominant female. Perhaps you can fulfill her fantasy first, whatever that could be.
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