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writes:I started out with my gf sticking her finger in my ass well she had a dildo and she said if I could take her dildo all the way in my ass I could fuck her in her ass(she said this jokingly) so I brought her the dildo and told her to do it. I took it all the way and my gf was surprised. I loved it from there on eventually she got a strap on and a much larger dildo and she does it to me multiple times a week. Well she moved away and I'm horny all the time and now all I can think about is REAL cock and I feel really weirded out by the whole thing but at the same time it really turns me on I'm just wondering if this is normal and if I should pursue the real thing
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reader, domehard +, writes (17 April 2011):
domehard is verified as being by the original poster of the questionMy gf is no more however I still talk to her and I have discussed this with her and she is fine with it I understand the other things that come with this and I'm not quite sure how I feel about the whole kissing thing I just want to take the cock and make it cum but I would probably just go with the flow
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2011): If you're single, go for it. If you're still together, you have no right to do this UNLESS she's happy for you to do it. If you have a very open and flexible relationship, and you find the right man (not at all as easy as it sounds) and you both want him, maybe you could share. In which case, pack PLENTY of condoms, and check in any sense of masculinity you've ever had at the bedroom door. Of course you CAN do this; whether you can handle it depends on you.
As far as your actual question: god I have no idea. What's 'normal' anyway?
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reader, Dataluke  +, writes (17 April 2011):
 Normal, definitely. Pursue, no.Its all very well you being turned on by this, me and my girlfriend do the same thing and I sometimes have fantasies about the male genitalia when she isn't around.But unless you are single it would not be wise to act on these impulses. How would your girlfriend feel? She would most likely blame herself as she started you on this.A sex toy in the shape of a penis would be the next best thing along with some imagination.All the best, Dataluke
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reader, yankit +, writes (17 April 2011):
No it's not really "normal" in the technical sense it may just mean you have very strong homosexual tendances.
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reader, Welsh Uncle Dave +, writes (17 April 2011):
If by you saying your girlfriend moving away means you're not longer together then you can go and pursue it.It seems something you obviously enjoy and you'll only know for certain if you try it for real.I suspect you are bi-sexual or at least bi-curious. While you are curious about having real cock, would you want to do the other things that go along with it like giving head and masturbating the other guy(s)?You may love the real thing or may not, but whichever, remember to be safe.
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reader, cupidus  +, writes (17 April 2011):
 Well there is a REAL MAN attached to that REAL COCKSomething to consider.
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reader, lovebird1  +, writes (17 April 2011):
I can't tell you if you should go for real cock. But IF you plan on doing so, you should be honest to your girlfriend about your wishes. Don't be weirded out by yourself. Apparently you are very open for new experiences which is good. It's very normal to like anal stimulation. And it's quite natural imagining a real cock in there after some time. It's just that in general, it's not worth risking a good relationship for some minutes of physical stimulation. And "pursuing the real thing" means having sex with a guy or ts. Are you ready for that? Because cocks don't come from trees :)In every relationship, there will be some things that your partner can't give to you. Sometimes this is okay, but sometimes it hurts so much that you need to leave. So you need to ask yourself how important this experience is to you and then chose if you want to risk losing or hurting your girlfriend. No one can help you with this decision and no one can judge this decision, either. Just play fair and be honest.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2011): Hey man!I think what you experienced was fantasy because the dildo acted as sort of a tease. In any case, I find your hormones could drive a decision here you may regret and Id hold off and try to think this thru a bit more. Good luck.
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reader, unglorified +, writes (17 April 2011):
is this a joke?
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