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writes: My marriage is on a downward spiral. I just want him to love me like he used to. I know he is capable. But I am not sure with my life at an all time low how to get his time and love. I need him so much, my mom is dieing and i feel alone and scared. How can i reach a man who doesn't want to hear me? 13years relationship. I am tired of all the fighting, I feel he treats me like a child and a screwup. Please help me to give him one last chance to let go of his anger?What can I do? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Sandman +, writes (17 April 2011):
Share your fears and anxieties about your relationship with your husband and let him know that you desperately want to fix what is broken in your relationship. Offer to attend counseling together so that you to can talk about what is causing the dissension in order to begin rebuilding your relationship.
You might discover that you both are feeling the same about each other. Maybe there are some things that have been bothering him that he is trying to navigate through. Discussing what is bothering you can certainly be the beginning to finding the relationship you feel is lost.
I hope the best for you. Keep us posted on your developments.
Hope this helps.
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