A
male
age
30-35,
*ltimate4000
writes:So i'm 18 years old and i masturbate often. It ranges from 2 times a day every day to 3. I can't help but feel that i'm destroying my life every time i masturbate. I've been trying to reduce the amount of time i masturbate and to no avail, nothing. When i started, i was 13 and it hasn't gotten worse than it is now, where i masturbate regularly. I'm just wondering, is it normal for guys to masturbate everyday, plus i feel like i'm the only one that does it. Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, lovebird1  +, writes (17 April 2011):
Hi there.
There's nothing wrong with you masturbating everyday, multiple times.
Maybe one problem is that you don't have too many exciting things in your life, so masturbation is the biggest excitement that happens.
What I'd suggest is that you look at your life in general and ask yourself if there is enough pleasure and happiness and occupation in your life that fulfills you. If you just masturbate because there is emptiness and boredom in your life, then you need to get a bit creative, get out of the house more, instead of just suppressing the urge.
When I am very horny it sometimes helps me to do sports. It relaxes me. I don't do sports because I think it's bad to masturbate, but I don't like to have to think about sex all the time when I can't have some.
A
female
reader, CindyCares  +, writes (17 April 2011):
 You feel like you are the only one who does it..? LMAO!97% of men masturbate - and 3% lie:)Maybe you mean, multiple times daily. Well, you might want to try again slowing down / skipping a day every now and then- just because it's never a good thing to become too attached to a habit, any habit . But,in itself, masturbating is neither wrong nor dangerous.
...............................
A
male
reader, KingOfThron  +, writes (17 April 2011):
 Masterbating is 100% normal, you'v got nothing to worry about "destroying your self" sex/masterbating is an form of releaving stress, also docters will tell you that for a male its recamended, to much build up could hurt they say.but men and women have high points in there life a male is from around 15-28 and a female is from 30 till about her 45's. now thats not EVERYONE becuase everone is diffrent so som people might hit there sexual high at diffrent times, i try to get out and away from the computer and join some sports meet new people and work on getting a gf, trust me you wont need to masterbate once a girl have you on the run, odd's are some girls will tired you out to the point you'll want to slow your sex life down lolgood luck though! if you have any more questions feel free to ask!king.//
...............................
A
male
reader, yankit +, writes (17 April 2011):
You're not alone the whole world "pleasures themselves" many refuse to admit it but we all do it several times a day...especially after thirty or so years of marriage.
...............................
A
male
reader, Welsh Uncle Dave  +, writes (17 April 2011):
There is absolutely nothing wrong or abnormal about what you do. It is perfectly normal.The only reason you may think you're the only who who does it daily and on more than one occasion is because others don't or won't admit to doing it.Virtually every bloke masturbates and they do it regularly.
...............................
|
