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writes:I am in a relationship with a guy in another country. I am planning to go there to see him, because we want to spend time together. The thing is that its cheaper for me to just buy him a ticket to come to my country, but he says he doesn't want me to sacrifice just for him. How can I make him see that I am sacrificing more by coming to him, than I am by bringing him to me? The only reason I am even going to his country is because he is there, otherwise I wouldn't bother. I don't know what to do, I know things have been tough for him since the GFC happened. I can't tell if it's a pride thing, or he just doesn't to feel like he is using me? Please help!Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your answer it helps to hear from someone who has been in this situation. I really appreciate it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2010): I have been in this situation. I met someone on the internet in the USA, we chatted for about 6 months and went over to meet her. We hit it off and I payed for her to come here. She couldn't legally work so i supported her. she got too homesick after 6 months so i put her on a plane back to america. we kept the long distance relationship going for another 6 months because i couldn't afford to go with her. i had saved up enough money but i suspected she was seeing someone and broke it off. we both were not ready to get married and start a life together. i suggest that unless you 2 are very serious about being together you should break it off. it will save you more pain because it is very possible that 1 of you will not wait. not saying that it will but very possible. trust me mate he has to really, really love you to wait for you. you should ask him how much he loves you and then decide.
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