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writes: I finally plucked up the courage to tell a guy (family friend) that I never wanted him to regret or feel guilty about what happened between us years ago and I don't regret it either. He told me the feeling was mutual.I said I will always have a soft spot for him and feelings for him but would never upset the situation he is now (I know his girlfriend and thankfully he lives in another country).I apologised for being so heavy about it all and that I would not want my comments to ruin my friendship with him for the future.He said I could talk to him about anything.I sent him a message later saying what did you think I was going to say as a compliment that was going to embarrass him (I had prewarned him that I may end up embarrassing him but what I wanted to say was a big compliment). He replied 'I don't know, but what you did say, says it all xxxDoes this last comment mean he is happy that I have told him. I would never expect him to still have feelings for me after all this time and I know by telling him this I risked him removing me as a friend on facebook. After all if he wanted to tell me how he felt he would have said something by now.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (23 October 2010):
 I agree with jmc930, in that he probably has moved on but it's nice to hear that what you two had meant something and you are ready to move on as well. A guy who actually cares about you will be happy to hear that you are doing good for yourself after any kind of fling that you two had. Its nice to know that you two think the same way in that it was special in the past and now life goes on with those events still as memories. That last thing he would want to hear is that you regreted it so this is probably a big relief to him because he cares.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2010): He's clearly moved on with his life. He is probably happy with the fact that things are cool between you two, but that doesn't mean he is still interested in you. You've gotten it off your chest, now leave him be with his girlfriend.
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