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What to do when your boyfriend comments on his ex's picture?

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Question - (23 October 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 23 October 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Ok, so my boyfriend and I have been together for a month and 9 days so far. He already told me he loved me and i told him i love him too, but yesterday i found out that he commented on some other girls picture. Its not the fact that he commented on her pic, but its just what he said that gets to me. "Sexy is whats on my mind every time i see you" That really made me upset that he would say that, and the girls pic he commented on was his ex!

His excuse...?? "I was drunk" wtf. He's only 16 =\

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (23 October 2010):

tennisstar88 agony auntHe told you he loved you but made that comment on his ex's photo, then blamed it on the alcohol. His story doesn't add up, darling. You know that, I know that.

Sober or not this guy cannot be trusted if he is making comments like that on his ex girlfriend's photos..If you love someone you don't tell an ex that she is sexy. You tell that to your own significant other! Break up with him before he cheats on you with his ex.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2010):

it was a month and nine days caring guy. Well just tell him not to call other girls sexy online again, as you find it disrespectful

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A female reader, Denise32 United States +, writes (23 October 2010):

Denise32 agony auntSorry, but I have to say 'AMEN" to what CaringGuy has written.

My dear, you can do - and deserve - MUCH better than this boy!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2010):

After a month and nine days, you've gotten three, huge, waving red flags:

1. He said he loves you already.

2. He called his ex sexy in a public manner.

3. He said he was drunk.

Your "WTF" totally sums it up. This isn't the guy for you.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (23 October 2010):

9 days, and he's already told you he loves you, commented on his ex inappropriately and claimed he was drunk. Do you get the feeling you're going out with someone who's not suitable for you? Because I do.

I don't think he has any respect for you. I don't think he's over his ex. If he was drunk then he's drinking way too much at a young age. And I don't think he really understands what love really is. I get the feeling you probably shouldn't be with him.

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