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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:hey,Theres this guy i really fancy from a club i go to *Jacob*. he's not down all that often, and when he is, it's never really for more than 2 weeks. anyway, i'm not all that good at flirting, and he's also autistic, so he might not be able to interpret my actions. is there any way i could possibly get around this without outright kissing him or saying 'i fancy you, do you want to go out with me?' (which i must say i have been temped to do several times hehe) i've tried going out with him to get a coffee (albeit with a couple of other people from the club we go to, but they often talk amongst themselves and we talk amongst ourselves. also they're usually guys and i know Jacob's not gay) and occasionally making contact like touching his hand 'accidently' when reaching for my drink, sitting close to him, stuff like that.but i don't think he understands. (i'm sorry if this is sounding insulting to all those with autism, i don't know a lot about it) could you please help with some idea's on how i could get closer to him.any help will be much appreciatedanon xx
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reader, just dance  +, writes (25 October 2010):
Ya then tell me if it does ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhehe thankyou for the advice. i don't consider myself ugly. i cannot see the point in being popular, i find it over rated and too much hard work to be worth the hassle. however i shall try to divert my attention from him, and see what happens.
thanks again :)
anon xx
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reader, just dance +, writes (23 October 2010):
Hi anon :)
Do u think ur too ugly??
Ur not...believe me
So...he's smart n all rite
Lsn babes he aldready knows that u like him so he tries to get more of ur attention
Get even...
If u think ur gud n any of the things that r in..n
will make u popular n all then do it n work on it
Don't pay so much attention on him n he'll come to ya
Remember boyz r attention seekers
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