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writes:Is this considered cheating on my long distance boyfriend?We are in a LDR in different countries in Europe. We are both in university.I am supposed to go for a walk with a guy I've met recently in my uni. He's fun, I've had dinner with him and his flst mates a couple of times. We are going to go for walk and then watch a movie and talk in his room.He's suggested this- do you think he likes me? I dont fancy him and he knows I have a boyfriend.Would this be considered cheating because then I dont want to do this.Also, my boyfriend didnt text me last two days- he had exams and I finally texted him and he was like he's out with his friends drinking. He didnt even bother texting me. Where is our relationship heading ? :(He's coming down to meet me in two week.What do I do?5 minutes ago - 4 d
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2010): simple answer.....
would you like it if ur boyfriend did it???
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (24 October 2010):
 The closest thing I would call this is emotional cheating but it really isn't because you have expressed that you do not have any feelings for him like that. If I was your bf I would probably jump to a bad conclusion unless he can really trust you when you say that he is just a friend which is difficult even if you are close together the LDR might make it worse. The thing is that in the end you are not wrong for having a male friend and doing those things you have described with him, everyone is entitled to friends being of whatever sex. Maybe just make sure that this guy isn't trying to get more from you and maybe mention him to your bf just saying how you have this nice guy friend who really wants to meet you.
The whole thing of not keeping in touch with you is a bit odd and doesn't look good although I totally understand the business of exam time. I hate to say this but maybe being so far apart is causing your bf not to think about you that often which doesn't look good for the relationship. See how he acts when you see him and be prepared for anything, you'll know where you stand when you're with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2010): Yeah that sounds kinda sketchy, a walk? Dinner? "Hanging out in his room"? I wouldent be hanging out with him alone in his room, if my girlfriend did that id be pissed. To me it sounds like he's going to try to get u horny and then see where he can get. If ur unhappy with ur currant relationship don't string it along and end it, then that stuffs ok to do. Don't be a scum bag and do that stuff wile with your boyfriend, its only going to turn out bad, don't be a cheater its just such a slap in the face.
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