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writes: My ex who i have a child with,asks me alot of questions about me and my private life not just about the child, i was seeing him for around two years.He then left me and got married 3 mounths later.Do you think this is a controll thing or a bit of regret?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2010): Hi,
It is a control thing, but I think he maybe still into you as well, a lil' bit. Why would he care about your personal life, unless it is endangering your child, or has anything to do with your child's well being. So I do see the "regret" in " I really screwed up by living my poor wife and child." Yes, he might be having a tiny tiny bit of remorse. Why are men such pigs!? Why do they always think the grass is always greener on the other side. He is a child, n' probably will keep partner swapping, because he thinks he will find happiness that way. He is not man enough to just work on the problems at hand, and salvage the love in the relationship that he is in. He is a dumb ass, for certain!!!! Stop telling him anything, be very tight mouthed about your life, it will irritate the crap out of him n' that is what he gets.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (23 October 2010):
You don't have to answer any questions. This is all about control, not regret. If he regretted what he did, he'd be saying sorry. Instead, he's just trying to keep you controlled. But you don't need to take it at all.
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reader, Battista +, writes (23 October 2010):
I think neither.
I imagine he might be wanting to know what sort of environment his child is living in.
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