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*weetheart1nonly
writes:I have been broken up with my ex for a month and a half and in between those months, he has been calling me just cheking upon me, telling me what has been going on with him, basically work and staying home, his family etc. He has even said more than twice, he misses me and still calls me by the pet names he gave me.It's been over a month plus now and i feel it's time i need to know what to do. we have agreed to meet up. Some people are telling me not to bring up anything about the break up but have fun. How can i have fun when i want to find out what the situation is. According to him, he is hanging out casually. What can i say when we meet up. Can I ask him once and for all about the relationship and why he's giving me mixed signals?Would appreciate responses. Thanks
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reader, sweetheart1nonly +, writes (23 October 2010):
sweetheart1nonly is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI still want to meet up because this is the best opportunity for me to get closure and ask him everything I need so no matter what I would still want to meet up.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (23 October 2010):
 he wants to meet casually? Why cant you ask him what's in if for you, why are your friends saying dont ask about the breakup, like you say, how the dickens can you have fun when you want to know what's going on?
Ask him whats in a casual meet up for you, I am sure he is aware you still have feelings for him, if he isn't going to give you answers I wouldnt be going!
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