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writes:Hiya guys not really sure what im asking for here but ive been on the site a while and have a problem and would like some outside opinions. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 18 months it was the typical started as friends and it grew into love and a relationship. Now my fella is 10 years older then me and the age gap is not the issue (in all honesty he acts like a kid). At the begining of the year my mum was diagnosed with melanoman and throughtout all the treatment he was there to support me. Since my mum was diagnosed as terminal and only has a few months left he has gone a bit cold and wants to end the relationship, he says he loves me and i make him happy and that he loves spending time with me but just doesnt feel the same. Now im not really willing to give up on this if you love someone its worth another go and we have been through so much and have such a good time together my opnion is due to his immautirty i think he is afraid he will actually have to grow up and be there for someone while they go through hell, because to change all of a sudden since finding out about my mum just seems a bit cruel to be honest. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2010): Well you can't force him to stay in a relationship with you if he doesn't want it anymore. It's really out of your hands at this point. sorry about your mom.
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