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writes:Background information : So there is this guy, I met him when I first moved here. We went through a lot of drama together but then I finally said yes to going out with him. We dated for 5 months and then abruptly ended the relationship. I found out that he had a huge party behind my back at his house! He denied it at first and said that no girls were there and just a few people. Turns out pretty much everyone was there. I was extremely upset and began crying and just didn't know what to do. So that is when we ended. Of course we ended up getting together various times after that even though it just ended up ending again. So, since he was a senior and I was a sophomore he moved to Maryland for college (which is very far from where I am). We did not talk all summer, then one day he came back into my life. He texted me "Hey", and here we go again. He manages to come back into my life and i LET him in. I don't know why :( Anyways, the reason we ended that time was because he said " I have another girl that I absolutely adore" All i told him was "Yup sure if you love her so much then why are you here talking to me".Present Information: Now it is October and we've been talking a lot these past few days. He called me yesterday and I answered and we talked for about 2 hours.. about everything! About his college, our past relationship, and even got down to the base of all our problems and why he did what he did. Everything felt like it was going back to normal, plus! he's transferring back home (which is where i am). So the problem i have no is, i told him i had to go because i was going to the movies, he then assumed it was a date and became extremely jealous/protective. I texted him once we got off the phone and he said "please just tell me the guys name, i just want to know you'll be in the right hands" so, i told him it was a guy named "ian" when actually i was just going with my friend. He was like okay that wasnt so hard. Then i said "you shouldn't worry, you kinda make it hard for me to even like anyone else" he said "yeah unfortunately a lot of girls like me" i was like "who? and why dont you date them?" he said "uhhhhh because they're not you?" (i thought AWWWW) i then asked "well ... what about that one girl that you adored so much" he said "yep loves a thing that doesn't go away, we still talk for now, the fact is we're gonna be apart for a while but we can't live without each other" right then i was like wowwwwww. i said bye and stopped talking to him.that's where i am now.my problem is i don't know why he keeps bringing up this other girl yet still talks to me. If he loved HER so much he wouldn't keep coming back to me ! Because in one of our other fights he brought her up and i said whatever your going to regret choosing her over me. He then texted me a month later and was like "you were right about her" and i said "i know Im always right ... i know you!!" So, I don't know what to do. I thought he was over her guess not, yet i thought he was over me ??? Guess not ! idkkk !! :((
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reader, katebaby17 +, writes (25 November 2010):
katebaby17 is verified as being by the original poster of the question So the whole sitiation has changed now ... now he's dating some girl that i have 3 classes with. I don't understand it ! He is in town all this week and said he wants to hang out saturday so i guess we'll see what happens. Because, when i texted him when i found out hes dating a new girl he said that i need to stop freaking out and all this stuff. then i said explain this situation to me, he said well you said you were done and deleted me off of facebook and everything so .. and i said well yeah your right. then we talked about our relationship issues and i said you know what we just dont work ! he said "we do , you just cant make up your mind on what you want. you put me through crazy loops 24/7 and it hurts my feelings". which he is right, i alwayssss talk to other guys and try to make him jealous :/ ughhh
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2010): Drop him he's a waste of time. Too many games
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