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writes:The guy i like says he likes a challenge but shocked me when he told me that he loves me so soon into our relationship. As i think so too, i replied back with "i love you too". How can I keep our relationship a bit challenging without giving him the impression that I'm not interested anymore?Thank you :) Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2010): What do you mean, "challenging"? You don't want to be combative with him, and there's nothing left for you to play "hard-to-get" about since you're already together and in love.
Instead of thinking of ways to make your relationship more difficult, thing of challenging things you two can do together. Have a competition to see who can climb a rock wall the fastest, go on strenuous hikes, have mental challenges like puzzles and games, etc.
You can be competitive as a challenge to him, plus these activities will bring you two closer rather than risk pushing him away.
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