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30-35,
*aayfinnigan
writes: hiya, im 15 and ive been going for my boyfriend for 5 months but a couple of weeks ago he was at his best friend's party and got completely drunk and snogged another girl? but the girl was sober and shes liked him for ages and she pulled him into a room and started kissing him. His best friend said he couldnt keep his hands off her but he said he loves me... but likes her to her but then he said to me he never meant to say that to her? he didnt tell me this cos he thought i would be hurt so i found out by his best friend and then i asked her and she denied it but i know its true, he says hes going to propose to me and hes really sorry he didnt know what he was doing? what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2010): Your 15 years old. You don't need to be worrying about marrying anyone right now. Drunk or not you don't cheat if your in love. love doesn't need subitutes. your just going through love...despair...broken...incomplete (LDBI). everyone goes through it. But it always comes back around to one word...love. Drop that guy. You don't deserve to be treated like that. you will find someone that will be faithful to you. Don't settle for a cheater, because he will always do it.
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reader, just dance +, writes (23 October 2010):
This is just the begining
Sorry but if a guy love u very mucj all he's gonna do is search for u
Even if he's drunk he'll say ur name
Think...
Ur 15 n u have a long way to go...
What do u think will happen after u get married?
M sayin for ur good...maybe he was drunk but he enjoyed himself n if he was going to propose u he wud have till now
Thnkx :)
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reader, leaf_ lady +, writes (23 October 2010):
Dump him. You deserve better, and it takes two to tango. Alcohol is a feeble excuse and your basically telling him its OK for him to treat you badly by staying with him. As for the proposal, did you think that he might be just saying this just to keep you on side?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2010): Well , He was drunk. The same thing happened to me with my ex boyfriend. Were human & we all make mistakes. He was not thinking very well. Maybe you should give him a lesson. Dont take him back so easy. Let him run after you & if he does. Than you know he really does care.
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