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writes:I am single. Over the past few years i have grown very close to a workmate who is 15 years younger than me. She is also single. I have fallen in love with her. I told her and she said that although we were best friends she could not return the my love. Understandably I have been quite down over the past month since she told me this. I know time will heal but my problem is not the rejection but I now feel angry. I really don't know why i feel angry as I want to stay best friends with her. I feel the need to constantly check what she is doing and where she is. Why do I feel like this?
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reader, billybob2010 +, writes (24 October 2010):
billybob2010 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your answer and it makes sense. However I still love her and can't stop feeling obsessed about it. in some ways I do thinkk she led me on by flirting with me. I have since found that she has started online dating, and have heard her say to friends that she would sleep with someone on a first date. All this is making me so upset, but I still want her
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reader, blindbetty  +, writes (24 October 2010):
 You should be thankful that she has been honest and up front with you. You need to stop obsessing over her and not let it get you into trouble. Perhaps you feel as though she led you on? What ever the reason you need to come to grips with your anger and obsession so that things dont escalate into you doing something unlawful.....you need to move on she's not worth it.
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