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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi, i was seeing this guy for a few months, i then saw he was quite a jealous person and was after control of me. Slowly i have begun to detatch from him and told him we are not compatible and just to leave it now, as for another thing i dont think we want the same things in life. But every time i tell him just to leave things alone, he will get back in touch and i think he does this just to upset me. What can i do, why wont he leave me alone? could one of the reasons be that he is used to women running after him and doing anything for him and i wont?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2010): Please,
Didn't you really just answer your own question in a round about way? If he is used to girls with low self esteem running after him, n' you have enough dignity to dump him, well yes, "men always want what they can't have" In this situation, he wants you because you don't want him. It will be a never ending cycle. You need to step it up and say something more direct and mean to him......Then, he will whimper away like the lil' dog he is. Just do it girl, it will feel great too!!!!!
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reader, SillyB  +, writes (23 October 2010):
 YOu need to change your phone number, block his emails, delete him from facebook and not hang out around places/people he does.
Hope this helps.
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