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writes:I'm a 23 year old female who is dating a 27 year old man and our relationship to me is going nowhere. he never wants to listen to my feelings or how i feel. he is always right and im always to blame. i had to basically stop talking to my guy friends which i knew since middle school through highs chool to make him happy but yet thats still not enough for him. he keeps making me feel as though im not good enough for him and he can find better, but yet he says he loves me. so i dont know what to do anymore. im tired of feel bad about myself and crying due to how he acts and the things he says. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2010): It all comes down to Love...Despair...Broken...incomplete. I know you mostlikly love this guy but don't you think you deserve better. You shouldn't have you go through this. because at the end of the day it comes back around to the first word love. you will find love with someone that will treat you like a queen, and thats what you deserve. don't let this guy put you down. go out there and find a guy that respects you and loves you no matter what. thats the kind of guy you need and deserve not someone that make you sad. I really hope you find that guy.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (23 October 2010):
You've got to get rid of this guy. He's no good for you, and has problems that he needs to address before he is worthy of being a boyfriend to anyone. This guy will ruin your life because he's scared to look at his own and sort it. You know deep down what you have to do to stop this. you have to end it, and you have to move on before you get even more hurt. There are far better guys out there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2010): Girl,
Usually a person who doesn't want you to talk to any of your old guy friends, well, is he feeling a lil' guilty himself about doing the same thing behind your back? Does he suffer from extreme low self-esteem so he has to make your feel like you are not worth anything to anybody? He is trying to control you, he probably can't do any better than you so this is his way of "keeping you in a lil' pumpkin". Sounds most unhealthy, sounds miserable and sounds like you need to set him straight or just break it off with him. You can do better, n' he knows it too, that is his biggest fear........Cuz you should and probably will leave him.
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