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I'm so unhappy about the way I look and how my life is going...

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Question - (23 October 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 24 October 2010)
A female Canada age 41-50, anonymous writes:

hello,

don't know where to start, before writing my problem, I would like to describe about myself, i am a b.tech graduate , after marriage never worked. I gained weight after giving birth (85kgs) never imagined myself in this shape, i look ugly fat, adding to this i don't have a good teeth, when i laugh my teeth shows and it looks awkward , don't like my pictures to be taken, my blouses doesn't fit me anymore, even my jeans. Obviously my husband doesn't like me , doesn't love me, it has been a year he has got flowers. I don't want to look in the mirror. The only thing i want is a good job, so i am separate from him and live for myself and start a new life. Help!

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A female reader, Indie23 Australia +, writes (24 October 2010):

Indie23 agony auntIf you are feeling bad about your weight the best thing for you to do would start eating healthier and exercising. I know the thought of losing weight will seem daunting but just eating healthier food will make you feel so much better.

It sounds like you're unhappy in your marriage and I don't think going out and getting a job to separate yourself from your husband is going to fix anything. I think you should know everyone has problems in their relationships and with their self esteems. I think you and your husband should consider seeing a marriage counselor about working through your issues.

I also think buying some flattering clothes that fit you nicely will give you a little boost. There is nothing wrong with being a little bigger and it doesn't mean you can't look great.

Indie.

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