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female
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36-40,
*lueberryalice7
writes:I've been with my boyfriend for over 8 years now and over the course of high school and college. Now, we are both out in the real world working full time and building our future together. My boyfriend and I have both smoked pot recreationally, however, i recently found out that i was pregnant and stopped immediately. Before I got pregnant we agreed that we would both stop smoking while we were trying to conceive to increase our chances, but it happened sooner than we thought it would. Now that I am pregnant, he sees no reason to stop or even cut back on smoking at all, nevermind the fact that we need to save money for our growing baby and his/her future. Now it seems like he's smoking even more than he did when we would smoke together and it really pisses me off. I have no problem with him smoking like 1-3 times a day but I went out to run some errands today and he smoked a blunt right before I left, a blunt while i was gone and a blunt right after i got home and I was only gone for about 2 hours. I confronted him telling him that it doesnt seem like he's cut back at all and it makes me feel like he's not supporting me in this pregnancy with OUR baby. especially since I want to smoke sometimes too to deal with horrible nausea and vomiting. (its the only thing that will enable to me eat and keep food down). but I DON'T because i want to do whats best for our baby. and i told him to me it doesn't seem like he cares about that at all because he just got all defensive, started yelling at me and stormed off the smoke AGAIN. he even said he doesn't even want to be around me when i nag him like this. I really am not in the mood to fight or argue and i just want him to be there for me when im feeling shitty and not running off to indulge in OUR favorite pastime.How can i explicitly tell him this without sounding like an irrational and hormonal preggo?and pls no responses on how weed is bad anyways etc... its only illegal and everything that the gov says is illegal isnt bad for you and the same goes for things that are legal (ie nicotine, alcohol)
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