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Will my boyfriend notice that I am a virgin?

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Question - (23 October 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 24 October 2010)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

i'm 22 yrs old and i'm a virgin by december im going to cabo to be with my bf and he thinks im not a virgin ive masturbated and donde sexual things but never had a man in my life and im freakin out and im scared to be with him will he notice im a virgin?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2010):

In fact i don't have a hymen, he was married for the last 10 years and divorced so i would say yes he is not a virgin. Can't stop thinking about it and I'm bout to cancel the trip to cabo

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2010):

Whether you choose to tell him is up to you.

He will tell that you are a virgin or inexperienced (if he has major experience to compare with) but thats nothing you need to worry about. If its love, he wont compare anyway, if its just sex, he will take the lead...

You have the choice just to lay back and let him do everything...

(I am assuming you don't have a hymen and not extremely tight)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2010):

Tell him. He will appreciate and feel special you have waited.

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A male reader, rivi United States +, writes (23 October 2010):

He might not notice [ how sure are you that he is not a virgin as well ?] but in any event you should stop worrying and let him know he's your first .

It's a privilege for the man to be a woman's first so he'll prob appreciate being told.

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