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writes:My boyfriend is obsessed with football. Absoloutly obbsessed.and many times i think to myself that he loves football waayy much more than he loves me. He's told me he loves me but the truth is, he'd much rather be playing football. How can i connect with him more so he likes spending more time with me??I've played football with him once before but i was really bad and he even said i was. I dont know what to doo... ? Reply to this Question
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reader, mrvhappy +, writes (25 October 2010):
Hi,
Why dont you buy him a football and yourself a goal keepers jersey.
That way you can play football with him and spend time together. Simple
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question:) thankyouu guys xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2010): Buy him a football for his Birthday :) He will love you for it
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (23 October 2010):
I'm afraid he's a teenage boy. Teenage boys don't really get the whole idea of 'dating' and such. It's not that he loves football more than you. It's that he's not really mature enough to understand that you're a girlfriend, and not just a friend. Teenage girls mature at a far quicker rate then boys, and often what happens is that the girls are ready for dating, while boys aren't. I think that's what's happening here. He's just not really ready to be dating and to have a girlfriend.
You could try telling him exactly how you feel. Sometimes if you speak to a guy directly, bluntly, he understands. But don't hold your breath. I think he has some maturing to do before he's really ready for a girlfriend.
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