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writes:For about a week my feelings for one of my closest friends have grown even more. We talk every night on msn because we don't see each other at school and talk for hours on end. And on Tuesday night I wrote on my personal message saying 'your so blind' directing at him, that's when he asked who it was about so because I was scared of telling him I said it was this girl who liked a boy who doesn't realise it. He wanted to know more so I told him, saying how they talk every night and he's always been there for her like she has for him. She's just too scared to say how she feels. And that was when he said 'perhaps he's found out by the way she's talking to him, and perhaps has always had feelings for her'. I told my best friend about it and she said its obvious that he likes me. I don't know what to do, last night I typed out my feelings to him over msn when he was offline but I didn't have to guts to press enter. The only thing that's stopping me is that I dated his cousin for 6 months and broke up about 2 weeks ago. I'v always had a crush on him because he's not like other guys, he lost his dad last november and he always comes to me to help him when times a bad. Every time he comes online he immediately talks to me. I really want to tell him how I feel but then there's his cousin (my ex) its the only thing that's stopping me besides the fact that he might not like me more than a friend. But the way he was talking to me it sounds like he does. I need help, does it sound like he does? And if he does should I actually do something even though he's my ex's cousin?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2010): It's probably best to stay away from dating people who are related to your ex or are friends with him. It causes a lot of emotional turmoil that's totally not necessary. There are plenty of people not related to your ex who would be great for you to date.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2010): Okay hunni went thru the same situation. You need to talk to your ex and ask him. Be like ok do you think it would be okay if i went out with your cusin. I have really big fealings for him. And if you dont want to do that then you can try to squeez the truth out of him to see if her really likes you. or have one of his friends ask him if he likes you back. hope that helps 3
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