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writes:I guess this is more a matter of me conflicted with myself.Last night, a group of us (me, a good friend of mine, his girlfriend and 3 of her friends) wet to a haunted house. Long story short, me and one of her friends spent an awful lot of time together.The only problem I have with this girl, is shes a freshman, and im a senior. Now, I wont turn 18 until right before I graduate, and I have dated girls 2 years younger than me no problem, and shes only 2-3 years younger than me, but she just seems so young at 15… although she is very mature for her age. I know the age difference isn’t much, but I don’t even think I know of one freshman-senior relationship by respectable people in my school.On the other hand, lately ive been talking with a girl that I almost dated 2 years ago, and have always liked. Right now shes injured and homeschooled and I probably wont see her till christmas, which means I wouldn’t be dating her till after christmas. I think ive already made up my mind Id like to atleast try dating the freshman, I guess im just more in shock right now. I thought I knew what I wanted for 3 years, and now that’s all been changed by 3 hours, and I very well know by choosing one I most likely lose the other.Ive tried to think of it both ways, that if its going to be just a short relationship, then who cares how old she is, as long as I have fun, or if its going to be a long relationship then ill only be 21 when she graduates, and that 2/3 years age difference wont mean a thing.Idk do you think its too much of a difference or should I stick with the girl that if she wasn’t at home id be dating now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2010): I'm a freshman, my boyfriend's a senior! no problem
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2010): as long as your not going to pressure the girl into anything sexual seeing as she is younger then you then it sounds fine. age is only a number and if you like her then you should really go for it. theres no reason to not date someone you really like just because shes a bit younger.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (24 October 2010):
 Date em both, but not at the same time of course. 3 years age difference isn't that big of a deal. Just note you can't do anything sexual with her yet till she is of age of legal consent, which ranges from 16-18 depending on your state. You like her, ask her out then obey the law for the time being. If it's short lived then you have the other home bound girl.
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reader, glassblower +, writes (23 October 2010):
 You met her....you like her...go for it! Stop thinking about what it means to other people and just think about what it means to you. Best of luck! xoxo glassblower
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